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| Sunday, January 15, 2006 |
| what a loser |
Just as I am falling asleep, i was awoken by shouts, cries and tears... its my sister and she woke everyone up except my bro.
She was having a shouting match with her ex-bf, Mr T and this Annie gal. Not knowing whats wrong except that she is brawling badly, she didnt want to talk and my worried mum asked her if she's pregnant or in any trouble. I picked up her hp and called that big WIMP Mr T. Oh yeah.. he's a wimp.. read on.
Asking him whats wrong, and he told me he don't know, saying that he broke up with her a long time back and its she thats 'disturbing' him. I asked him, are u sure its a long time ago, thought just a wk back, and he said 'yes' but sorry dude, your tone gave u away. I asked him y he broke up with her and he said "no feelings anymore for her" . According to my sister, he keeps telling her 2 versions of everything, when he's drunk, he told her that he dont love her anymore but when he is sober, he said he still do... n thats just a few days back. I asked him what kinda of reason is that cos its doesn't even sound convincing. Its simply a convenient excuse for him. I told him that be a man and act like one, clear up the mess that he started and he was like acting totally innocent and said a whole lot of irrevelant things, I was like "fuck la, dont think i duno what u have done, getting yourself drunk everyday, being caught for cheating on her... not only once, don't u know... even a rabbit knows not to hunt around his burrow" Oh for those u duno, he was caught holding and kissing other gals around his pub area.... what an idiot.. everyone around there knows him.. just waiting to be caught. That sister of mine also one kind, 4gave him and still sticked by him. Okie, I have to admit that what i told him was irrelevant to the conversation but just wanna vent some frustration on him.
okie here is the wimp side of him... suddenly this gal's voice came on, and she was this Annie gal. He sent a gal to talk to me on his behalf!!! Sister in the background told me that he broke up with her cos of this Annie gal, I do not know how true this is but apparently Annie denies it and said that he only knows her after he broke up with my sister and was sooo defensive of him. Well Miss Annie, if u r reading this, i just want u to think about some things, or should i say some possibilities:
1) u r lying, u know Mr T long ago.
2) Mr T is lying, he knows u while he is still with my sister.... does that make him a liar/cheater?
3) My sis is lying, Mr T broke up with her long time ago but she doesnt face it... okie..its definitely not longer than 2 wks cos I personally witnessed some events and conversations that makes me sure that around New Year period they r still together.
4) Annie just knew Mr T, so this makes them (3 of them) all telling the truth but why is it that Annie talks as if she knows everything? Well, either u were brainwashed by Mr T or u r in the picture all along.
5) All 3 got everything mixed up.
So Annie in her chicken-like voice, squeaking away, acting as if shes older than me... asking me what I want. Err... Ms ar.. u r younger than me. So i simply told her that if he can do this to my sis, she is simply waiting-in-line for her turn, and told her to ask that wimp and big time loser to the phone. Btw, that annie's voice is really jarring.. still has that ringing effect on my ears now.
Mr T took over and I asked him why did he sent a gal to talk to me, and his reply was "i'm driving"
"Driving?" I looked at my sister. Sister's reply was short n sweet "he doesnt even has a license!"
Oh yeah... 4got it was revoked! So my reply was "how can u be driving, your license was revoked, so you are breaking the law now. By the way, what kinda of reason is driving, haven't u heard of hands-free? Cant u just park the car by the side and talk properly?"
He was like shouting away "BUT I'M DRIVING!"
Stupid loser... come on.. wanna bluff me ar.. there's like 1 bus stop every 1 km or so. Furthermore, when he was with my sister, never did once he drove, so where the mysterious car came from? Y the sudden need to impress Annie? mmm... mayb the car is Annie's but isnt that even better, can't he ask her to take over the wheels so that he can talk to me, not break the law and come up with better arguments.
Anyway, he told me that if i want to call police cos he is driving w/o a license, i can go ahead. But as if i am soooo free...
Okie, anyway my parting note to him is to be a real man, make a clean break and he is really a loser. Err.. i think I've said more things to him but cannot really remember.. think along the lines of he cannot even take care of himself etc etc.
I kind of lectured my sister, telling her how many years of her life can she waste on him, asking her if she wants to stay in this cycle with him. Its so obvious that Mr T is a player and from the start, I am sure that 50% of him just wanted to play with my sis. I gave her some examples of people i know and how sticking by a fucked up guy just ruined their life and wasted their time. Dont want to see my little sister ending up like tat. Come on, if everyone can tell her to 4get abt Mr T, can u imagine how terribly a person he is. I dont even need to meet him to feel bad vibes abt him.
I totally understand how my sister is feeling cos dun we all at some pt in time meet people that we just cant let go off. We will be just blinded to all that person's doing as long as the person still stays in our life, but frankly, we just end up in more tears, more heartache and the ending often never what we imagine it will be. Just to side-track, that's when the nice guys come into the picture. Well, its true that good guys never gets the gals but u know what, good guys never gets the gals initially but they always end up marrying the gals cos gals will one day get so sick and tired of the bad guys, they will end up with good guys.
To my little sis: i can only hope that u will move on and walk away with pride, such that if u do bump to him another day, u will truly be able show him life w/o him is better. You know that u do have to bear some responsibility to why things became so ugly, so face it bravely. I know that u do not want to make us worry by crying in front of us but dont u know that your other actions say so much more. When u need to cry, just cry. No need to keep all your tears. As days passes, u will realised that u r crying lesser and lesser, such that one day u will wake up and and realised how much that awaits u. There's lots of people that cares for u. Always remember that.
To all the girls: dont go for a loser like that, some one that cannot even take care of himself well, someone who cannot even feeds himself, someone thats will get into trouble with law anytime (not cos of the driving,there's more to it), someone that cheats on u and most importantly some loser who is still a boy when come to handling matters of the heart. I read blinkymummy's blog and she said something that left me a deep impression:
" I fuck up, I say nabehcheebye, I clean up and I start over again and again and again"
Things do get screwed up at times for everyone, but most importantly is pick oneself up again no matter what happened.
To all the guys: Dont be like Mr T. Dont be a wimp and send a gal to talk on your behalf. If want to cheat, make your brain do some work 1st. Really do not know what to say. |
posted by thesillypurpledog @ 5:18 AM  |
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woman, you are indeed a lovin sister. just drill this into your sister's head:
she's smart and attractive. there are so many good guys out there. why must she settle for such a loser.
these people are of a different social class. don bother lowering yourself down to their level by crying over them.
keep ur chin up and head high. everything will be fine. (esp with such a caring family and a super older sis!)
cheers!
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woman, you are indeed a lovin sister. just drill this into your sister's head:
she's smart and attractive. there are so many good guys out there. why must she settle for such a loser.
these people are of a different social class. don bother lowering yourself down to their level by crying over them.
keep ur chin up and head high. everything will be fine. (esp with such a caring family and a super older sis!)
cheers!